Bring vs Take: How to Choose the Right Verb

Use bring when something moves toward the speaker or the person being spoken to, and take when it moves away, toward somewhere else. You ask a friend to bring a jacket to your place, but you take your jacket to the office.

The verbs work like come and go. Come and bring point toward "here"; go and take point toward "there." The tricky part is deciding where "here" is, because it can be where you are now, where your listener is, or where either of you will be later. That flexibility is why even fluent speakers mix them up.

Quick answer: Bring = toward here (the speaker or listener). Bring your laptop to my office. Take = away to there. Take an umbrella when you go out. If you'd say "come," use bring; if you'd say "go," use take.

Bring vs Take – Confusing Words guide
On this page
  1. Thinking in Directions
  2. Meanings, Forms and Origins
  3. Bring vs Take at a Glance
  4. Example sentences
  5. Phrasal Verbs and Idioms
  6. US vs UK vs Australia
  7. Common mistakes
  8. Memory Tricks
  9. Fetch, Get and Carry: The Neighbors
  10. When Either Verb Works
  11. Practice quiz
  12. Point Your Arrow

Thinking in Directions

The cleanest way to choose is to picture an arrow. Who is the anchor point of the conversation, and is the object traveling toward them or away from them?

  • "Can you bring me a glass of water?" The water comes toward me, the speaker.
  • "I'll take these boxes to the car." The boxes move away from where I am now.
  • "Bring your sunscreen when you visit us in Darwin." The sunscreen will come toward us, the hosts.
  • "Don't forget to take your sunscreen to Darwin." Darwin is somewhere neither of us is right now.

The "Come and Go" Swap

If you're unsure, swap the sentence into come or go.

  • "Are you coming to my party?" → "Will you bring a salad?"
  • "Are you going to Jake's party?" → "Will you take a salad?"

The direction you'd use for the person is the same direction you use for the object.

Shifting the Anchor

English lets the speaker "move" the anchor point in two common ways, and this is where the rules soften.

Toward the listener. "I'll bring the contract to your office tomorrow." You're not in the listener's office, but you're speaking from their point of view, as the destination. This is standard English.

Toward a future location of the speaker. "I'll bring dessert to the barbecue." If you will be at the barbecue, it's natural to treat it as your future "here." Many speakers also use bring when the destination is simply the focus of the conversation, even if no one there is speaking.

So bring can stretch, but take rarely does. "Take it to me" sounds wrong in any variety, because take cannot point back at the speaker.

Meanings, Forms and Origins

Bring

  • Part of speech: verb
  • Forms: bring, brings, brought, brought, bringing
  • Pronunciation: BRING; brought rhymes with thought (BRAWT in American English, BRORT without the r sound in British and Australian accents)
  • Origin: from Old English bringan, with relatives in other Germanic languages such as German bringen

Take

  • Part of speech: verb
  • Forms: take, takes, took, taken, taking
  • Pronunciation: TAYK; took rhymes with book
  • Origin: from late Old English tacan, borrowed from Old Norse taka, which gradually replaced the native Old English verb niman

Take is one of the most versatile verbs in English, with dozens of senses beyond carrying something: take a seat, take a break, take a test, take time. Bring has fewer meanings, mostly connected to causing something to come or arrive: bring joy, bring charges, bring about change.

Bring vs Take at a Glance

Bring Take
Direction Toward the speaker or listener Away, toward another place
Parallel verb come go
Past tense brought took
Past participle brought taken
Typical phrases bring up, bring about, bring along, bring home the bacon take away, take out, take off, take part, take a photo
Example Bring your kids to our place. Take your kids to the park.

Example sentences

Around the House

  1. Could you bring the washing in? It looks like rain.
  2. I'll take the bins out after dinner.
  3. Bring me the remote when you come back.
  4. Remember to take your lunch to school, Charlie.
  5. Grandma always brings scones when she visits us in Hobart.
  6. We took the old couch to the tip on Saturday. (Australian "tip" = rubbish dump)

In the Office

  1. "Please bring your laptop to the training session in Room 4." (the writer will be there)
  2. "I'll take the signed forms to HR this afternoon."
  3. "Could you bring the quarterly figures to our call with the Leeds team?"
  4. "Don't forget to take your ID badge when you visit the Chicago site."
  5. "Thanks for bringing this issue to my attention."
  6. "Sarah took the client to lunch to discuss the renewal."

Academic and Formal

  1. The new evidence brought the original theory into question.
  2. Students should take their completed forms to the registrar's office.
  3. Industrialization brought rapid change to towns across northern England.
  4. Participants were asked to bring a food diary to each session.
  5. Researchers took samples from twelve sites along the Murray River.

News Style

  1. Heavy rain brought flash flooding to parts of New South Wales overnight.
  2. Volunteers took supplies to families cut off by the storm.
  3. The verdict brings an end to a three-year legal battle.
  4. Paramedics took two people to hospital after the crash near Leeds.
  5. Ambulances took the injured to a hospital in Columbus, Ohio.
  6. Officials hope the festival will bring tourists back to the region.

Notice examples 21 and 22. British and Australian English say "taken to hospital" with no article, while American English says "taken to the hospital" or "to a hospital." The verb stays the same; only the article changes.

Phrasal Verbs and Idioms

Many idioms with these verbs have nothing to do with direction, so you simply have to learn them.

With bring: bring up (raise a topic, or raise a child), bring about (cause), bring down (topple), bring forward (move to an earlier time), bring in (introduce), bring home the bacon (earn a living), bring the house down (get huge applause).

With take: take after (resemble a relative), take off (remove, or leave the ground), take on (accept a task), take over (gain control), take up (start a hobby), take part (participate), take it easy (relax), take for granted.

A few pairs mirror each other neatly: "bring back" vs "take back," "bring out" vs "take out," "bring in" vs "take in." In each pair, bring suggests movement toward the speaker's location and take movement away.

US vs UK vs Australia

The basic rule is the same everywhere: bring points toward the speaker or listener and take points away. But actual usage differs somewhat.

United States. In American speech, bring has been spreading into territory traditionally covered by take. Sentences like "I'll bring the car to the mechanic" or "Bring your passport to the airport" are very common, even when neither speaker nor listener will be at the destination. This is particularly widespread in certain regions, and some American usage commentators now accept it as informal standard. Formal writing and many style guides still favor the traditional split.

United Kingdom. British English generally keeps the come/go distinction more consistently in both speech and writing, and "take it to the shop" is far more typical than "bring it to the shop" unless the speaker is at the shop. That said, the extended bring is also heard in Britain, and there is regional variation within the UK and Ireland.

Australia. Australian usage is close to British usage on this point, with take the normal verb for movement away. A well-known Australian (and New Zealand) phrase on invitations is "bring a plate," meaning each guest should contribute a dish of food to share, not turn up with an empty plate, as newcomers have been known to do. The host writes bring because the food is coming toward them. A guest talking to their partner at home might say, "We need to take a plate to the Smiths' on Saturday," which follows the same direction logic.

Vocabulary differs too: food you buy to eat elsewhere is takeaway in Britain and Australia and takeout or food to go in the United States.

Common mistakes

❌ Can you take me a coffee on your way back? ✅ Can you bring me a coffee on your way back?

❌ I'll bring the library books back to the library tomorrow. (when you're at home) ✅ I'll take the library books back to the library tomorrow.

❌ She brang her sister to the wedding. ✅ She brought her sister to the wedding.

❌ He has took the dog for a walk. ✅ He has taken the dog for a walk.

❌ Bring a photo of the sunset, it's beautiful! ✅ Take a photo of the sunset, it's beautiful!

❌ Don't forget to brought your umbrella. ✅ Don't forget to bring your umbrella.

Another common slip is confusing brought with bought. Brought (with an r) is the past of bring; bought is the past of buy. "She bought flowers and brought them to the hospital" uses both correctly.

Memory Tricks

Bring = come, Take = go. If you'd use come for a person moving in that direction, use bring for an object. If you'd use go, use take.

"Bring it here, take it there." Say this out loud a few times. The -ing of bring echoes the here you'd point to, and the t in take matches the th in there.

The waiter check. A waiter brings food to your table (toward you, the diner) and takes your plates away. Picture that scene whenever you hesitate.

Fetch, Get and Carry: The Neighbors

Three other verbs often turn up where people hesitate between bring and take, and each has its own direction built in.

  • Fetch means a round trip: go somewhere, pick something up and come back with it. "Can you fetch the post?" implies you will return with it. Fetch is common in British and Australian English for errands ("I'll fetch the kids from school"); in American English it sounds a little old-fashioned outside the game of fetch with a dog, and get or pick up is more usual.
  • Get is the all-purpose informal choice. "Can you get me a drink?" avoids the direction question entirely, which is why many speakers reach for it.
  • Carry describes the act of holding something while moving and says nothing about direction. "She carried the box up the stairs" works whether the stairs lead toward or away from the speaker.

A useful trick when a bring/take sentence feels awkward is to swap in one of these. "Could you pick up my parcel from the post office?" is clear to readers in all three countries.

A Text-Message Check

Mia: Leaving the office now. Want me to bring anything home? Tom: Yes please, milk. And can you take the overdue library book back on your way?

Mia is heading home, where Tom is, so the milk is brought. The library is a third place, so the book is taken. Two verbs, two arrows, one short exchange.

When Either Verb Works

Some sentences genuinely allow both, depending on perspective.

  • "I'll bring/take wine to Ruby's dinner." If you're speaking with Ruby, bring. If you're speaking with your partner at home, take is traditional, though bring is also common.
  • "Should I bring/take a coat?" If you're asking your host, bring. If you're asking yourself before leaving home, take.

  • "Did you bring your homework?" A teacher in the classroom says bring, because the homework should have come to school, where she is. A parent at the front door in the morning would ask, "Are you taking your homework?"

When in doubt, think about where you'll be when the object arrives, and whose point of view you're speaking from. Either choice can be defended as long as it reflects a coherent perspective.

Direction-and-perspective pairs show up elsewhere in English. If this helped, see borrow vs lend, which also depends on which way something moves, and lie vs lay for another pair of everyday verbs with tricky past tenses. Australian readers may enjoy Australian slang phrases, where "bring a plate" and its cousins appear.

Practice quiz

Choose bring or take (or the correct form).

  1. When you come over tonight, could you ______ some ice?
  2. I need to ______ my car to the garage for a service.
  3. The waiter ______ us the bill without our asking.
  4. Remember to ______ your swimmers when you go to the pool.
  5. Mum has ______ the kids to the cinema.
  6. Please ______ your questions to Friday's meeting, where I'll answer them.

Answers

  1. bring – The ice is coming toward the speaker's home.
  2. take – The car is going away from the speaker.
  3. brought – Past tense; the bill came toward the diners.
  4. take – Movement away to the pool.
  5. taken – Past participle; the kids went somewhere else.
  6. bring – The speaker will be at the meeting, the destination.

Point Your Arrow

Before you choose, picture the object as an arrow and ask where it's heading. Toward you or your listener, write bring; away to some third place, write take. Casual speech will let you get away with bring almost everywhere, especially in the US, but in writing for a mixed audience, the come-and-go test keeps your meaning crisp.

Frequently asked questions

Is it 'bring it to the party' or 'take it to the party'?

It depends on where you are. If you are talking to the host or you will be at the party yourself, 'bring it to the party' is natural, because the item is moving toward you or your listener. If neither you nor your listener is at the party, 'take it to the party' is the traditional choice. In casual speech, many people use bring in both cases.

What is the past tense of bring?

The past tense and past participle of bring are both 'brought': 'She brought snacks,' 'She has brought snacks.' 'Brang' and 'brung' are nonstandard forms heard in some regional dialects and in jokes, but they are not accepted in standard writing.

Is it 'bring back' or 'take back'?

Use 'bring back' when something returns to where the speaker is: 'Bring my charger back when you're done.' Use 'take back' when something returns somewhere else: 'I need to take these shoes back to the shop.' 'Take back' also has the idiomatic meaning of withdrawing a statement.

Should I say 'take a photo' or 'bring a photo'?

Use 'take a photo' when you mean photographing something. 'Bring a photo' means carrying an existing photograph to a place, such as 'Bring a passport photo to your appointment.' The first is an idiom, not about direction at all.

Is 'bring' or 'take' used for food orders, like takeaway?

Australians and British people say 'takeaway' for food bought to eat elsewhere, while Americans say 'takeout' or 'to go.' All of these use take because the food is leaving the restaurant. No variety uses 'bring' in this sense.